What kind of "man" refuses to pay his child support and then has the audacity to say he "loves" his child??? Who only calls when he was court-ordered to? Yet will not send the money he owes so she can have a decent life? Who lets HIS mother go on food stamps so HIS child can eat well because he will not help support her? Who thinks making a 1/3 payment is ok, because at least he paid "something" for the first time in three months? Who makes $80K but cannot help his child buy clothes or go on a school trip? Answer: He is not a MAN at all. He is still a BOY who has not yet learned responsibility.